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Communication & Soft Skills

Assertiveness Skills and Confidence Training

Assertiveness Skills and Confidence Training is a practical, transformative programme designed to help professionals communicate with clarity, conviction, and respect in any workplace setting. Participants learn to express their ideas, set boundaries, and handle difficult conversations without aggression or passivity. The course blends psychological insight with hands-on practice, equipping delegates with the mindset and tools to project confidence and influence outcomes effectively.

⏱ 5 Days 📡 In-Person 🎯 All Levels From KES 80,000

About This Course

In today's demanding professional environment, the ability to communicate assertively is one of the most critical — and most frequently underdeveloped — skills in the workplace. Many professionals struggle with one of two extremes: either they hold back their opinions to avoid conflict, or they come across as aggressive and alienate the people around them. Assertiveness sits powerfully in the middle — a learnable, evidence-based skill that enables individuals to express themselves honestly, confidently, and respectfully.

This five-day programme from TrainingComplex is designed to break down the psychological and behavioural barriers that prevent professionals from speaking up, setting limits, and influencing decisions. Drawing on cognitive-behavioural frameworks, communication science, and real-world workplace scenarios, the course gives participants an understanding of why they behave the way they do under pressure — and what to do differently.

Beyond theory, the course is intensely practical. Participants will rehearse assertive communication through structured role plays, receive candid peer and facilitator feedback, and develop personal action plans they can implement from their very first day back at work. Whether you are a team leader managing upwards, a professional navigating internal politics, a customer-facing representative, or an individual contributor wanting to be taken more seriously, this programme delivers lasting, measurable change.

By the end of the week, delegates leave with a stronger sense of professional identity, a toolkit of assertiveness techniques for a wide range of situations, and the self-assurance to use them consistently — even when the stakes are high.

Who Should Attend

Learning Objectives

Course Modules

Module 1: Understanding Assertiveness: Foundations and Frameworks

  • Defining assertiveness and the spectrum from passivity to aggression
  • The psychological roots of non-assertive behaviour
  • Core beliefs and how they shape communication style
  • Why assertiveness matters in modern professional environments
  • Key theoretical frameworks: DESC scripting, the Assertiveness Bill of Rights, and transactional analysis basics
  • How organisational culture and gender dynamics influence assertiveness norms at work

Module 2: Know Yourself: Communication Style Assessment

  • Completing a validated personal communication-style diagnostic
  • Identifying your dominant patterns under pressure and stress
  • Recognising how others perceive your current communication style
  • Setting a personal development baseline for the week
  • Mapping situational triggers: contexts where your assertiveness consistently increases or breaks down
  • Interpreting diagnostic results to pinpoint the specific behaviours most worth targeting first

Module 3: The Mindset of Confidence

  • Understanding the relationship between self-worth and assertive behaviour
  • Cognitive reframing: challenging inner critics and limiting beliefs
  • The confidence-competence loop and how to activate it
  • Building psychological safety to speak up in any environment
  • Using pre-performance routines and anchoring techniques to access a confident state on demand
  • Distinguishing healthy self-assertion from arrogance: the role of self-compassion in sustainable confidence

Module 4: The Language of Assertiveness

  • Using 'I' statements to express needs and opinions without blame
  • Structured assertiveness scripts for common workplace situations
  • Choosing words that are direct, respectful, and unambiguous
  • Avoiding hedging, over-apologising, and passive qualifiers
  • Calibrating assertive language across different professional relationships, seniority levels, and cultural contexts
  • Recognising and closing the gap between what you intend to communicate and what your word choices actually signal

Module 5: Confident Body Language and Non-Verbal Communication

  • Posture, eye contact, and physical presence in professional settings
  • Voice modulation: pace, pitch, volume, and pausing for effect
  • Managing nervous habits and physically projecting calm authority
  • Reading and responding to others' non-verbal cues assertively
  • Aligning verbal and non-verbal signals to eliminate mixed messages that undermine credibility
  • Adapting physical presence and vocal delivery for virtual and hybrid communication environments

Module 6: Setting Boundaries and Saying No Professionally

  • Understanding why boundaries matter and how to identify yours
  • The anatomy of a professional 'no': frameworks and practice scripts
  • Navigating guilt, pushback, and pressure after declining a request
  • Maintaining relationships while upholding your own limits
  • Distinguishing between a firm boundary and a negotiable preference, and communicating each appropriately
  • Proactively establishing boundaries with new colleagues, projects, and roles before problems arise

Module 7: Giving and Receiving Feedback Assertively

  • Delivering constructive feedback using the SBI (Situation-Behaviour-Impact) model
  • Handling defensive reactions and keeping conversations productive
  • Receiving criticism without becoming defensive or deflated
  • Turning feedback conversations into opportunities for mutual growth
  • Initiating feedback proactively rather than waiting for formal review cycles
  • Navigating power dynamics when giving upward feedback to a manager or senior stakeholder

Module 8: Handling Conflict, Manipulation, and Difficult People

  • Recognising manipulative communication tactics in the workplace
  • Assertive responses to aggressive colleagues, micromanagers, and passive-aggressive behaviour
  • The broken-record technique and other structured de-escalation tools
  • Staying composed under pressure: emotional regulation strategies
  • Distinguishing between conflict that requires assertive engagement and conflict best managed through strategic disengagement
  • Documenting and escalating persistent difficult behaviour appropriately while maintaining professional integrity

Module 9: Assertive Negotiation and Upward Influence

  • Negotiating for resources, timelines, and recognition with confidence
  • Influencing without authority: strategies for peer and upward communication
  • Presenting your case persuasively in meetings and one-on-one conversations
  • Building credibility and trust as foundations for sustained influence
  • Using principled negotiation techniques to reach outcomes that satisfy both parties without compromising your position
  • Timing and framing assertive requests strategically to maximise receptiveness from decision-makers

Module 10: Sustaining Confidence: Action Planning and Commitment

  • Reviewing personal growth and breakthrough moments from the programme
  • Finalising the Personal Assertiveness Action Plan with specific, measurable goals
  • Building accountability structures: peer support, journalling, and milestones
  • Strategies for maintaining assertive behaviour under long-term workplace pressure
  • Anticipating high-risk regression scenarios and preparing specific coping responses in advance
  • Embedding assertiveness as a leadership habit by identifying opportunities to model and coach the skills in others

Requirements & Prerequisites

No formal prerequisites are required for this course — it is open to professionals at all career stages and from any functional background. Participants should come prepared to engage in self-reflection, role play, and open discussion. A willingness to practise new communication behaviours and receive constructive feedback is essential for getting the most from the programme.

Training Methodology

Organisational Benefits

Where Is Assertiveness Skills and Confidence Training Offered?

This course runs in-person across: Lagos, Mombasa, Nakuru, Dubai, Nairobi, Dar es Salaam, Addis Ababa, Abuja, Pretoria, Zanzibar, Arusha, Kisumu, Cape Town, Johannesburg, Riyadh, Kigali, Accra, Naivasha, Kampala, plus Live Virtual (online) cohorts. Browse live dates for your city below.

Upcoming Schedules

LocationFormatDatesPrice
Lagos, Nigeria In-Person 5 Oct 2026 – 9 Oct 2026 USD 2,500
Mombasa, Kenya In-Person 5 Oct 2026 – 9 Oct 2026 KES 115,000
Nakuru, Kenya In-Person 12 Oct 2026 – 16 Oct 2026 KES 115,000
Dubai, United Arab Emirates In-Person 12 Oct 2026 – 16 Oct 2026 USD 4,100
Live Virtual Online 17 Oct 2026 – 8 Nov 2026 KES 80,000
Nairobi, Kenya In-Person 19 Oct 2026 – 23 Oct 2026 KES 115,000
Live Virtual Online 19 Oct 2026 – 23 Oct 2026 KES 80,000
Dar es Salaam, Tanzania In-Person 19 Oct 2026 – 23 Oct 2026 USD 2,300
Addis Ababa, Ethiopia In-Person 19 Oct 2026 – 23 Oct 2026 USD 2,400
Abuja, Nigeria In-Person 19 Oct 2026 – 23 Oct 2026 USD 2,800
Pretoria, South Africa In-Person 19 Oct 2026 – 23 Oct 2026 USD 3,300
Zanzibar, Tanzania In-Person 19 Oct 2026 – 23 Oct 2026 USD 2,500
Arusha, Tanzania In-Person 19 Oct 2026 – 23 Oct 2026 USD 2,100
Kisumu, Kenya In-Person 19 Oct 2026 – 23 Oct 2026 KES 120,000
Cape Town, South Africa In-Person 26 Oct 2026 – 30 Oct 2026 USD 3,800

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Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need any prior training in communication or psychology to attend?

No prior training is required. The course is designed for professionals at all levels and from any background. All concepts are introduced from first principles and built progressively throughout the five days.

Is this course suitable for senior leaders or is it aimed at junior staff?

It is genuinely suitable for all levels. Senior leaders often benefit from modules on upward influence, feedback, and conflict management, while junior professionals gain foundational confidence and communication tools. The facilitator tailors examples and discussions to the experience mix in the room.

Will there be a lot of role play? I find that uncomfortable.

Role play is a central part of the course because practice is the only way to build genuine behavioural change, but the facilitator creates a psychologically safe environment where participation is structured and supportive. Delegates consistently report that the role-play sessions are the most valuable part of the programme.

Will I receive a certificate upon completion?

Yes. All delegates who complete the five-day programme receive a TrainingComplex Certificate of Completion in Assertiveness Skills and Confidence Training, which can be shared on professional profiles and included in CPD portfolios.

Can this course be delivered in-house for our entire team?

Absolutely. TrainingComplex offers customised in-house delivery for organisations that want the programme tailored to their specific industry, culture, or internal challenges. Contact our training consultants to discuss scheduling, group size, and customisation options.

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